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I appreciate the advice, but I may or may not have hit a small roadblock today. In between taking two finals at my college classes this morning, I headed over there for a visit because it’s only about a 3 or 4 minute drive between both places.

Talking to my grandparents, the subject came up about my recent promotion at work, which included a redone schedule that allowed me to be off for Thanksgiving. My grandma asked if I minded if she invited someone “special” over, and knowing what she was talking about, I said no, I wouldn’t mind at all. She said it was this girl, and I said I knew her from going to school with her a few years back. Then she said something kind of discouraging, something along the lines of “Nah I wouldn’t do that to you, you can pick your own girlfriend”. Figures the time she tries this and I’m finally interested, she doesn’t push it. I still don’t know if she’s even invited, but apparently she probably wouldn’t be able to come anyway because of her huge family.

I also found out that she doesn’t even come to the house when they carpool. They both meet at a different place depending on who’s driving, but she might still come over to hang out every now and then or something. Also, my grandma mentioned something that sounded like my cousin wouldn’t want the two of us to go out, because apparently my cousin “knew what my grandma was trying to do by inviting her over for Thanksgiving”, and my cousin didn’t want her to come for it. Not totally sure what she meant by this, or why she even cares, but whatever.

So at this point, I don’t really know what to do. I’ll be over at my grandparents’ place this Wednesday for most of the day and for Thanksgiving on Thursday, so I’ll try to do my best to get some more information on whether or not this girl comes over or not. At the very least, I just want to see this girl for a few minutes so I can get a quick feeling of whether or not she’d be interested in me at all. I kinda want to subtly push the issue with my cousin or grandma so word could get around to this girl that I’d like to see her, but I don’t want to make it blatantly obvious that I’m dying to go out with this girl. If I could see my cousin or my grandparents more often so the issue might come up again, I’d try it, but with my schedule it’s tough having to be patient for days at a time before I hear anything. I just feel kinda hopeless at the moment, but I’m not giving up as long as there’s still even a small fighting chance here.

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