Thanks. Good news and bad news to report. The good news is that I finally heard from him without contacting him. He e-mailed me Tuesday night and said he’d asked for time off at a certain time we discussed for another visit, i.e., 3rd date. Here’s the bad news. I e-mailed him Wednesday evening to say Happy Thanksgiving, but have received no response. Tomorrow will make a week since he’s written me. I thought he would have written sometime over the holiday weekend to say Happy Thanksgiving back. Here’s my follow up question. Assuming I’ll hear from him again (since he has, after all, kind of bookmarked me for a certain weekend), how and how soon should I respond? Should I make him wait however long I have to wait from my last e-mail to his next? Also, am I right to be discouraged? I mean, I’ve heard that what matters most is what he does/doesn’t do between dates as opposed to during the date. Most of the time, by the time a third date is in the works, I’d hear from a guy more often. How can I get him to want to communicate with me more? Thanks again.
