April….
Thanks for the advice. On other forums I have been yelled at and flamed for considering someone with a boyfriend…and my intention is not to be some homewrecker…maybe many of them are single/felt the pangs?
Others have suggested to me that I tell her I’d be interested in dating her if she didn’t have a boyfriend, and to hit me up sometime until then but to stop tesasing me like this.
Thanks for the encouraging words of competition – I guess I’m just a nice guy who doesn’t like forcing people out of their will…but then again….I guess its because of the will.
So how exactly can I bridge this gap and ask her out? Asking a girl out who has a boyfriend (mind you that she knows that I know she has a boyfriend, though she never speaks of him to me)….? I feel like I’ve extended invitations and have been blown off…..but I’m also aware that she has other things to think about…..even she did like it, she has to deal with her boyfriend in one way or another….
I’ll make a commitment to making clear plans with her by the end of the week and see how it goes – I’m just wondering how formally you can ask a girl with a boyfriend out to explore possibilities…