a little more information… i just turned 21 and hes 20. we have talked about marriage and kids and all that jazz but want to wait a few more years because were young. he is my first relationship, first kiss, first handhold, first everything. we tried living together for 6 months, but we had crazy roommates and had to move out to get away from them. its really expensive to get a place here too, especially while im still in school. family is really important to him. its all he has other than me and hes afraid theyll outcast him if he chooses to be with me.