[spiderr111]

I will definitely get your book and look for some pointers in the future. Thank you for your advice. However, I do have some questions. What is the point of being with me for a year then if he is not satisfied with me? Why not just break up from his side. Ive told him that maybe he does this because he doesnt find me as attractive or as appealing and he continues to tell me that i am all he wants. ( we have civil conversations about this issue and every time it happens and he just tells me that it’s a problem that he needs to learn how to control) He tells me know much he loves me ( which just happened a month ago), that he grew to love me and im everything he looks for. I understand that by chatting with these women he is obviously doing it not on the internet too and that he finds them attractive or filling some weird void that i do not. He just continues to tell me that they are only “eye candy” and that its a guy thing that he cant control.

Since the fight we have talked and he is begging me not to break up with him and that he wants to make everything better and all that jazz. I want to make the right decision here. Im not afraid to break up, i know i will be okay within time. But i dont want to break up and regret it.

Sorry for bother you again, but your advice is definitely inspirational and taken highly into consideration.

[spiderr111]

In addition. Im not sure if this makes a difference or not. But the women that he contacts are NOTHING like me. Im not judging, just describing but they dress to show off their stuff, are not fit ( and he is a stickler about the gym and which i am too), most of the women have children and are single mothers, and neither one of them are my race. I have nothing against the women.

I dress to impress also and take care of myself, but in a more classy way ( i would like to think 😀 ) I have a lot of priorities that i deal with and try to keep everything in check. Im not a crazy person i do relax and have fun, but probably more conservative then the average women.

[spiderr111]

I am 22 years old and he is 29 years old. I have known him since i was 18 and we were really good friends, then we lost contact and started talking again about 15 months ago. We started dating and he moved in after 9 months, it was never official and the place that he used to stay at he still owns (he rents it out to his sister, but it’s a two bedroom place so he sleeps there whenever something like this happens).

As of what i know he only cheated once, with one woman. He tells me that it was in the first two weeks of dating. And that he didnt know if we would last.

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