Thank you for your quick answer.
I already know better than to actually have sex with this girl. It’s asking for way too much trouble. Like you said there are other girls. I just wish I understood this better. What is on and off limits, what is a signal of what.
Plus, declining things with this girl is not easy like tearing up a stranger’s phone number. These are two of my closest friends. I have enough willpower but I wonder if it will make anything weird between us all.
I still have a hard time accepting she has sexual feelings for me. Would a she really have sexual contact in mind when she’s telling her BOYFRIEND she wants to go sleep in his best friend’s bed? (He’s generous and trusting and not jealous to me but sheesh!) Doesn’t it make more sense if she had innocent intentions? I didn’t even think I was her type. I can believe she wanted to cuddle up with me but I can’t get it through my head that she would have wanted me sexually touching or kissing her.
Or would she have stopped me if I made a non-platonic and sexual move on her, but secretly wanted it? But if you think that’s it, then why are you sure she has sexual feelings for me at all?
I’m just a dim bulb when it comes to this stuff. It’s not the first time I missed a big hint from a girl. I already made up my mind not to have sex with this girl but I want to make sense of things in my head.
