It was her idea to file for divorce and she said she would handle it all. After they split, she even went to him for relationship advice on her current boyfriends and treated him ridiculously, blaming him for everything.. and yelling at him when they were still living together and he would do nice things for her.. like say cook dinner or do laundry. He told me he does blame himself for not following through with the divorce further, he says he should have been more involved that way he would have known. I feel like he’s doing this just because of his reputation that he so wants to uphold and because his family basically fell in love with her. He told me himself that he’d be completely fine living an “unhappy” life if it was what was easier for everyone around. I really feel like I not only lost the love of my life, but my best friend too and I don’t know where to draw the line. Right now I told him that what’s best for me is to not have him in my life and he told me that he respected that and hopes one day I can forgive him.
