Hello April,
well I took your advice.
Its a no go.
I dont really understand this girl.
It seems like the more attention I pay her, the more she backs off, and vice versa. I text her every few days (she doesn’t like to talk on the phone) to see how shes doing, and she texts me the days when I dont text her first. I flirt with her but she doesn’t flirt back. I ask her out but most of the time but she has plans already and doesnt say when shes available. So then I back off.
I dont contact her at all for a couple of days, then she contacts me. I flirt again and she likes it, but she doesn’t flirt back. Then she says the night we had sex shouldn’t have happened, and that she was embarrassed about it, saying that she doesn’t normally have sex with people, and that she only has sex when she’s in love, and that we were both drunk that night, etc.
So then I respond saying she shouldn’t worry about it, and that it was just sex and it didn’t mean anything. Then I told her I will stop all flirting and kissing from that point on.
I see her the next day, and dont really pay much attention to her, and then she starts making all these plans, saying we should do this and we should do that. She kept insisting that I watch the lakers game with her later that day after we both get off work. I finally say ok, then later she cancels on me.
I can’t figure out if this girl is testing me, playing hard to get, or just really wants to be friends. Your opinion is much appreciated.
