[bison]

For me, I do ignore girls I’m interested in as the “marrying kind”. Why? Its hard to say why, but its almost like there is fear of rejection when you know for a fact that the woman IS what you want. So why not jump on the opportunity?…Because you women out there that have a good personality, are kind, fun, etc…are always looking for guys that are wild “bad boys”. Its like YOUR perfect match is not what SHE has in mind. Not all “nice guys” are “NO FUN”.

[bison]

Oh…forgot to mention….she makes these posts on Facebook that seem to me like she is trying to get my attention…I made a post about being a bad cook and that I need to find one….20 minutes later she posts something about food. I make a post about loving my niece….4 hours later she posts a pic with her and her nephew….Is this ironic or is she wanting my attention? I’m the one that has always been hard to get…so its like she wants me to notice her. Need more input here gals!

[bison]

What I can’t understand is…I have not spoken to or have seen this girl in 14 years. I have had no contact with her since high school. We are in no way close friends.

Another thing that confuses me. When asked about her great weekend…she dodged the question. Here is where it gets strange. I told her I went to town to see friends and buy concert tickets. She replys back…do you know this band is at this bar…I can’t go…I’m going to visit my sister!…Which she is….Now why would she say that? Those WERE the tickets I purchased…and I told her that I bought one just for her. She mentioned that she wanted to go! So why would she throw those clues out there if she was not interested?

She is also starting to open up about some things…things girls don’t say to just any guy friend….I’m so confused!

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