[Ambivalent1212]

Thanks for your reply–I appreciate it! One more question: how do I really figure out what I want? I guess I kind of knew what your answer was going to be–the whole “Find yourself and know what you want first” thing–but I have no idea what that means practically speaking. How do I do that? How do I know when I’ve done it? Any suggestions of where to start?

[Ambivalent1212]

I guess my question is how to decide between them, and also how to know what I really need in a relationship and to pursue it. I think all the time about running off to be with the other guy–the one with whom I have the chemistry–but I also don’t want to be “that woman” who runs from relationship to relationship. I’m 32, a serial monogamist (relationships of about 2-3 years), and feeling like I’m never going to find the person about whom I feel 100% sure. I don’t know when to follow my gut and my heart, or when to hang onto something that’s broken but possibly worth fixing.

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