I know exactly what your problem is. You have a ‘soul tie’ to the person. You love you current b/f but you’re unable to love him wholeheartedly the way he deserves because you are connected to your ex spiritually. Sometimes you just dream about him without even thinking about him and you can’t help it. If you believe in God pray and ask him to cut off all cords of the soul tie between you and your ex. If you don’t I suggest you block all those emotions by thinking how mean he was to cut you off without an explanation! You weren’t worth much to him for him to say good bye. He just left. If you find yourself fantasizing or thinking about him stop it immediately think of your current sweetheart who loves you and values you more. Don’t allow these emotions to engulf you because it means he(your ex) has control over you and I’m sure you don’t want that. Don’t rob yourself of a good man you have now with thoughts of your uncouth ex!
Good luck.
