i wish i had an answer for you. your post caught my attention because i can relate to it. i was just recently ‘dumped’, after being stood up just this past weekend. this was after a just a few days before he sent me a new pic of himself and was all lovey dovey calling me ‘babygirl’. i haven’t contacted him beyond leaving a vm the night i was stood up simply saying ‘say it isn’t so, are you standing me up?’ i knew that call would go to vm, and of course he didn’t call me back. i haven’t texted or called since then, most women plead and beg and i’ve read enough over the years to know that’s a big mistake. i feel your pain. all i can say is don’t contact him, let him wonder what you’re up to and let him wonder why you’re not contacting him. i can only hope the guy who did this to me is wondering why i haven’t contacted him. they’re just such friggin cowards. i wish he’d have had the balls to verbally end it, so i could’ve had the satisfaction of agreeing with him, even if this makes me sad. that catches them off guard. good luck to you.
