Thanks April for the advice. She is, in my opinion, worth every effort. However, I’m not sure where I stand after two months in, and maybe that’s an answer in itself? I have no problem if it takes her longer to get there, I’m in no rush. But we’re both in early 40’s, etc. and I want to know where I stand at least – have I dropped into the abyss of the nice guy from which there is no escape..or does she still think that things could be more than friends?
Is there a tactful, non-confrontational way to broach this subject? Or does this type of thing end in disaster no matter what? I’m not looking to have her go exclusive if she’s not ready that’s for sure. But my time and affection I don’t give out to just anyone…I don’t want to waste her time and make her feel uncomfortable by continuing to be affectionate, etc if my advances aren’t welcome. That make sense?
Or should I just let this roll on and try to guess, assume, and analyze without really knowing what’s going on? No problem with competing but the games I could do without. We’re not late teens, early 20’s where games are still in vogue so to speak, lol.
Thanks in advance for any additional advice!
