[Robson09]

She’s acting really weird now.
2 nights ago I texted her ask inf if she’s mad ,she deny it and asked if that’s how it’s going to be from now on, she said she didn’t know then I told her to figure it out and let me now, because if she decides to not talk to me anymore there’s some last things I would like to tell her,and she kept asking what it was because she was curious.
I didn’t text back, then last night about 2am, I just sent her a ‘smile face’, she was rude asking me what I want, i said nothing, we both said ok later and she kept saying bye,even when I also said the same,all the sudden she tells me to f***off, I told her ‘I stopped texting you, I’m trying to sleep to bye’,later she only texts me ‘ hammered’, I said the same things and I check my phone this morning there was a text from her at 3:40am saying ‘ I know you ain’t sleeping’.
So this morning I was texting her everything was alright when I asked if she wanted to do something today, she started saying we can’t do that because she has a boyfriend, then she thinks we shouldn’t even be talking,then I only said I wanted to tell her something and she wouldn’t hear from me anymore,now she was saying that she doesn’t know why I’m making such a big deal, that she doesn’t wanna meet me to talk,by text she said ‘ I don’t care what you are going to say, I date kurt’.

I’d love this girl April, but she behaves like that still loves me, but if I confront her she behaves like the complete opposite. As you said loos like she doesn’t want to break up with the guy but at the same time she wants to keep me to herself. After she saw with another girl that night, she’s acting really rude and like she doesn’t care and be fore that night we were just fine. I’m guessing that another one of her head games because she knows I will go after her eventually. I was going to send her a message telling her everything she’s being doing and how I feel about that but as I second thought I decide not to.

[Robson09]

Dear April,

Sorry to bother you again,I’ve been following the book’s instructions and everything so far was working, we were hanging out quite a bit, she complained a bit that she doesn’t want her boyfriend to know that she’s smoking now,she said that was going to be ‘our secret’.
Although something unexpected happened last night, I went to a bar in her town for a friend birthday, she showed up there. She literally flipped on me,because apparently I was dancing with one of her friends ( that I had no idea that was her friend), I just walked away and later went to another bar while she was texting that she hates me and said the f word a few times.
This morning I texted her to find out what happened,she was still mad at me and she was saying things like she shouldn’t be around me anymore,she’s not sure if she can be just friends because if she sees me with someone else she gets too mad.

What should I do ?

[Robson09]

I’ve been trying to understand her,for personal experience I never actually with any of my ex-girlfriends just that normal ‘talk’ when we bumped into each other,also even when one of my friend’s girlfriend cheated on him with me and his girlfriend never talked again after that.

One of my good friends keep telling to just keep talking and being friendly not going to hard on her,and not talk about ‘us’.

I’m 19 and she’s 20, we are both young.
We dated for about 3 months,we were really attached and ‘romantic’ with each other,we get a long extremely well.
We broke up because of the distance,I live in Burnaby-B.C. and she lives in glace bay-Nova Scotia.We both attend the same university. I was working during the whole summer so I couldn’t visit her, She was coming to stay with me for a couple months,she even had the plain tickets. Although she is diabetic. She gets sick really easily (her heart even stopped last year ). She even for a ‘check-up’, her blood work came out really bad and the doctor advised her to not go away. For the next few days we were fighting a bit ,we had a talk about it and decided to break up because the ‘computer/phone thing’ was getting on our nerves.
I’m guessing her new relationship was a ‘rebound’. The only time I see her with the boyfriend is in college,never actually showed any affection towards him.
We dated for only 3 months we had a lot of plans for the rest of the year.
Since Friday we still talking and everything she even complained once I wasn’t being talkative at all.

What I think she might be doing,as you said April I’m pretty sure she still has affection for me. I’m guessing maybe the fact that her boyfriend is a good friend of most of her friends if he finds out that she cheated on him with me,there would be a lot of trouble.

Maybe some facts that would help, that I’m the only ex that she still talks with ( at least everyday ),she always showed affection with her boyfriends,she haven’t done that with this guy. She pretty much told me I was the last guy that she sleep with ( which it was 6 months ago),When we were still dating (she never cheated on me) but when she got really drunk and just danced with another guy she told me,when her ex actually almost ‘rapped’ her by jumping on her trying to kiss her and unbutton her shirt, she told me and she doesn’t want to tell her boyfriend about Friday. If I talk with another girl that she doesn’t know, when she is around I can notice that she gets upset. She have asked me before if I still think about us, and Friday as I mentioned she asked if I missed her and if I still love her I asked her the same question she replied yes for both.As inappropriate as it can sound while we were dancing and making out on Friday I asked a few times and she wanted me to leave, she always said no and always said yes when I asked her if wanted me to stay with her,even though she was somewhat drunk.

I really apologize for bringing my problem to you,I read of you books a while ago ( Date Out Of Your League),I’m guessing that’s how I got with this girl. Just the things that she’s doing now I couldn’t find an explanation for it, even my best friends are clueless about the whole situation.

[Robson09]

I’m sorry.
I’d want to date her again,I just have no idea about what to do. We talked a lot yesterday and stuff.
Her actions doesn’t make any sense.

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