Hi April. I want to help these ladies by telling them they can work at their problems. Unfortunately sometimes they end up getting the short end of things, and for every women dealing with this, there are solutions. I don’t know much about tantra stuff but I did come across a site that helped me and my man. Jennifer Lawless has an article called “6 Penetrating Positions for a Small *****”, and it has helped us. There are other articles too that will help if this one doesn’t. Thanks April. – trish