[Simple guy]

It was right that I couldnt ask her for date…Still I wanted give her some hints before I actually do that… We were planning to check out a new cuisine…I thought about it and on the day I was going out of town… I texted her that we missed going on that cuisine date…she texted we would go after I comeback but a cuisine date?…I replied I just thought…her reply was haha…I thought I must have acted stupid typing all this and replied did I say anything wrong…and she texted no no …

I am taking this talk in positive manner that is she is interested in going out for one…Ur thoughts?…I used to read ppl well just not able to get it this time or maybe it was just my assumption that I read ppl well…Was that a bad idea?…I did ping her once after that since I am very busy till end of next week…I dont know whether I would get any time… besides I felt I dont want her to think I am a pain and give her space..

[Simple guy]

I feel hopeless … end up keeping everybody involved… asked her for movie … she said yes … who all would join and instead of directly saying just two of us…i said .. i will check with rest or just two of us can go…thhough i just ended up asking them none joined … but it turned out to be regular hangout we normally had …. worst …strangely i used to talk anything under the sun … i couldnt simply ask her about us… i went blind nothing to speak in between…we kept looking here and there …during the dinner…i sometimes felt she was trying to not to open up …i thought this might be because of her old relationship … she may not be interested after endng the pretty serious relationship … 15 days i m out now…would curse myself…

let me know what should i do

[Simple guy]

Thanks…
I am still little confused. Do you want to say that I should just call her up and just ask her that I am interested in her and check what is her response? Wouldnt that might sound weird to her ? but I can try that. The other day we met again, not general but she planned she wanted to meet me and my colleagues wife because we woudnt be meeting as I would be out of station for two weeks. I had some work in downtown and she had plans to go at some inbetween place. So we went together. On my way back, she calls me to check whether i can comedown to shop with her. So i did.The funniest part was she knew I had no interest in shopping and i went just because we could spent sometime togethr. And then just sit out and kept talking for couple of hrs..talking how are resp. families pushing us to settle down. and then on our way bck, she preferred that i should walk down to the closest exit to her route exit and inquired when is my return journey from work -return date time…
Ur comments?

[Simple guy]

Thanks April …
I had been away for while…i talking to girl for almost 7-8 months now…or let me go in detail….
met this girl…took her ph no…starting texting…As usual I have a habit bringing in everybody…got one more friend for group chat…we planned that we 3 should meet… other guy was busy so i said fine lets drop plans…she tells me that we shall meet …if the other person is busy..so we meet..tells me she has bf …long distance relationship…i was totally ignorantt about the story … both of us been out drinking…we keep texting in private and grp..went with trips around with her mother and herself till then i just looked at her as friend..the shhe talks about some weird dreams with me around…nothing sensual…but now suddenly i start to feel strange about it… my thoughts change about her… but i dont say anything…i have new set of friends..introduce her to them…on my way to outing…msgs me that she broke up with her bf…and hoped i was there around…i feel she sometimes giving me hints but i feelshe just out of serious relationship and maynot be ready for new one…now i going out of this place for 2 weeks with my new friends and her in town…and i dont trust these friends much…i cant say anything to her bcoz I introduced them to her…Now I feel like I like her but dont know how to express or if at all should ….
Please give some suggestion

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