FOLLOW-UP TO BEST FRIEND’S HUSBAND SABOTAGED CLOSE FRIENDSHIP
Dear April,
Well, I did what you suggested to send my friend a snail mail letter explaining what happened with the intention of giving her the opportunity to reconsider our friendship. It’s been almost two weeks since I wrote her and still have *not* heard a word from her. I wonder if she is just ignoring me and decided to believe her husband’s lies instead of the truth from me. I think maybe she probably just wants to stay in her miserable marriage because she has a lot to loose, giving up her apartment, changing jobs, and moving 5 hours away from all her friends because of her husband. Do you think she had time to mull this problem over by now? How long should I wait to know if we are still friends or not? This silent treatment is making me wonder, if her husband Won in convincing her to be my Foe rather than my Friend.