Reminds me of my previous relationship. I think it’s a thing with pretty women? My ex literally forced me not to have any friends from the opposite sex, believe me not even one. She’d flip and fight when my ex sent me a friend invitation on facebook (which she managed to make me decline by putting up a small fight), or when I talk to my friend very decent(no flirting), or the time when i told a childhood she-friend of mine that she resembles a movie actress… So basically they want us to have no connection with the opposite sex while if we look at their phone book or facebook they’d have almost all the men in the world as their buddies.
I once asked her how is it fair that I have 0 friends from the opposite sex while she has a trillion friends and more new guys everyday, and how is that we’ll have a crazy argument when i talk to a girl infront of her only for a min but she’d talk to her friend (who claimed to have feelings for her) for 15 mins while we’re on a date….. and she replied “Honey, It is me that is jealous of you having friends from the opposite sex, but u r not jealous of me right? So I can have friends, but you shouldn’t, these women are dirty and they’ll spoil you” I found it really silly….
I thought it was because they have trust issue. I had never given her any reason to not trust me, still haven’t. But i think thats the she-nature. I think the only solution to you i am afraid is.. You’ve digested it so far… just a lil longer, Live with it. You can’t reason with her and make her understand, neither can you convince her that you can be friends with your ex. It’ll be hard specially with her being very attractive and all the other men singing “you-are-so-cute-you-deserve-better-than-him” songs in her ears constantly that any strong movement on your side against her wish would make her believe in those songs. I mean if she was any smart/mature not to believe them they’d be mature enough to understand that you are a good man and that u need to have ur friends circle too. right?
