[tricia]

I feel sad for the outcome of your relationship. You seems to be a perfect couple but sadly due to circumstances, the perfect relationship has come to an end. Your former boyfriend might decided to be a father than to continue to be your lover. He might love you so much yet he decided to take his responsibilities as a father and be a MAN behind his actions

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To the fact that he said that his into an open relationship, for me this is enough to prove that his still entertaining other girls. Yes, his right that he has no control with that matter but he has the control on not entertaining them

[tricia]

The problem was in YOU. Because of your attitude and action your boyfriend won’t be secured at all. You won’t gain a trust from him if you will continue these things. Make him feel that his the only guy in the world and no one could replace him

[tricia]

How come the two of you became lovers for 16 months without saying I LOVE YOU at all. How did you become his girlfriend without this word. If the two of you really love each other then how come you both seem to be not comfortable with expressing yourselves.

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[quote=”April Masini”] But you

[tricia]

If she really loves you and over on her ex then there’s nothing to worry.

If the two of you are in good condiiton now then why she still have to go on his ex place. She can refund the money if she really wants or visit that place but consider it as a vacation and go somewhere far on her ex’s place.

No one know what might happen on that 10 long days. All we can do for now is to wait and see the result. Please update us by making another thread at that time

[tricia]

I don’t think you love your girlfriend that much. You might be just physically attracted on her before. But now that she was no longer sexy, here you are complaining and seems to be no longer in love with her. Real love is not because of physical looks, if you really love her, you will accept her for whatever she looks like.

Women is always insecure on the way they looks and she will surely become more insecure because of your attitude.

[tricia]

Most of the guy I’ve known don’t prefer an older woman because they got bully with their friends. But my bestfriend’s girlfriend happened to be 5 years older than him. I asked him why she like that woman despite of their age gap. He answered me that older woman is mature enough and handled the relationship seriously compare on those same with his age

[tricia]

Don’t forget that your girlfriend is just 19 and still immature so you’re the one who should adjust and adopt on her attitude. Being moody or mad at no reason is normal on every girl. May be she just wants your full attention.

[tricia]

You must really love that girl so much to the point you want to kill yourself just because of her.
Please do understand your girl, she might be still suffering from her last relationship. She got traumatize and just afraid to happened that again. All you can do for now is to understand her and make her feel that you’re a way different from her ex-boyfriend

[tricia]

Keep in mind that FIGHTS and OBSTACLES are part of every relationship. These things will help every relationship and the couple itself to become more stronger. If the two of you can’t handle these obstacles then there’s no reason for the two of you to continue the relationship.

On the other hand, you seems to be so in love with that guy. So let me share you one great line to implies in your mind.[b] “Your boyfriend should be just part of your life, but not your life itself.”[/b].

[tricia]

Well, this would be not an ordinary situation for me. Being in your part, I wouldn’t allow him to have a girl roommate. Imagine your boyfriend living with a girl under one rooftop and sharing bathroom, that’s a BIG NO NO for me. I suggest you to talk with your guy and let him know about your concern. No one knows what might happen if two opposite sex stay under one rooftop.

[tricia]

Obviously, your lawyer is no longer available, you just didn’t know if his married or just into a serious relationship.

It’s also pretty obvious that your attracted on that guy but the question is… does he feel the same way? I suggest you to focus first on the divorce and once you were single again then that’s the right time to entertain your feelings towards him

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Age wouldn’t matter if you really love the person. Of course you will prefer a man same or higher than your age. But when love is in the air, you have no choice but to entertain the feeling.

Try to be in a crowd same with age so the exposure will be on the same bracket of your age.

[tricia]

Long distance relationship was really hard to survive and it’s a good thing that you’ve moved closer to him. But instead of making things better, the situation seems to be more complicated. There is something wrong in this relationship.

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