I understand what you are saying, i think she is too scared to leave him but wants more and is useing the affair to breakup there relationship, but is still in two minds. shes now said to me, she needs time to think but will come over and spend time with me still when she can, which she does once or twice week until he goes back to uni in 12 weeks. she indirectly said that she misses us and does not want to get too close to me because she does not trust her self with me.
so I’m going to play it as mates atm and see what happens, oh forgot to mention her bf is still playing away, which is the reason she strayed in the first place
the bit that gets me is that hes always done it and she thinks that almost normal in her life
