I have to say though, I’m somewhat offended that after all I posted, you jumped the gun and just assumed all I message is 10-rating women. Seriously I set the bar pretty low as it is, hence why I always ended up getting cheated on because I always ended up dating scum.
I’ll message basically any girl who doesn’t break any of my 5 rules:
1) Isn’t 300lbs+ (they’ve gotta take care of themselves to be able to keep up with my physically active life)
2) Doesn’t have kids.
3) Doesn’t do Drugs
4) Doesn’t Smoke
5) Wasn’t a guy at one point in their life.
Thats it, honestly, I’ve messaged some girls who wern’t super attractive but seemed like a great person. Thing is, to prove my point to a friend of mine… earlier last week, I made a fake profile on the dating site, had a terrible profile setup, very little in the description, a scum basically. I put the profile picture to a guy off a picture-rating website, a guy rated 9.8. That profile got 6 messages the first day, and over 70 messages the first week.
My profile (which I’ve left sitting there in times when I was dating) received ZERO MESSAGES in the last FIVE YEARS, from women messaging first. The only messages I ever got were in responses to messages I had sent out first, and usually its a 1 in 100 women respond.
Basically, my standards are low, and that sucks. But I will not bottom out my standards to dating fat chicks just because im not hot. I’m moreso just frustrated with women being so superficial and fake.
And explain this, why do women say “I’m always up to make new friends” but if your not good looking, they don’t want to become your friend.. Seriously, I can understand wanting an attraction when dating but none of these women even give two shits to even go out for coffee and maybe make a new friend.
