Thank you for the Advice. I’m not too worried about getting myself into trouble i know all about his charges and am not too worried about him as being a dangerous threat. I have been working on casual hangouts nothing with an overbearing amount of pressure, but still trying to convey that i am interested in furthering our relationship. My main worry with the continuance of the relationship we have now is that we do text for hours and hangout fairly often, but im worrying i am making myself too available, giving her all the perks of being my girlfriend(taking her out places, paying for food, not having sex with random women, and having her stay over for nothing more than cuddling) but not actually forcing her to make a decision. i fear if it goes on too much longer i will end up becoming more of a reliable friend than someone she should take a bit more serious than that.