It’s not our child, it’s his child. I would love to be his stepmother one day but I’m not yet. And we don’t go out for dates because we are both working full-time and in school full-time so we struggle to get our homework turned in on time and to get dinner on the table. We had a good sex life in my opinion but even after sex I found find him staying up all night watching porn afterwords. I tried sitting him down and talking to him about what was missing and changing things. Ever since he said he hasn’t been looking at porn and things have been getting better but now this happened. He did cheat on me twice, but it was when we had only been dating for 2 weeks and now it’s been 2 years.