[flybird]

There are two girls that I like that I see at the library very often. I was thinking of using a banter line (which I learned reading a book) when I get a chance to talk to one of them I will say “Why do you come hear to see me but you don’t say hi?” And take it from there. Is that decent to say? If not what would you recamend me say at first? Remember these girls see me a lot so I’d like to say something that realizes that.

[flybird]

How are woman with men having a lack of friends and money? 1) I don’t have any friends, not because I have issues or something but I’m more mature for my age compared to most guys in there early 20’s. I live on my own and have to pay for everything with requires working and acting adult like as for alot of guys live with other people and have help from mommy and daddy. So it’s been hard to get along with others my age. So how does this effect woman with guys that don’t have any friends? 2) I don’t have a lot of money either. I work the 40 hours a week but for only $10 and hour. Thats less than $20,000 a year, which doesn’t work these days. I have the money to go out on dates and have fun. But not enough for anything spontanious, like fancy vacations, new car, diamonds and jewlrey, a big house, at least not at this point. How much does a man’s money really mean to a woman?

[flybird]

I have a question on female behavior. Why do a lot a girls don’t talk to men? I understand that some want men to man up and talk to her (which doesn’t nessisarly make him a real man). I don’t have an issue with that, do it all the time. The problem is I like a girl and I talk to her but since they don’t talk to me I feel like they don’t like me. I don’t want to force a girl to like me I want her to like me on her own strength. I won’t know if a girl likes me until she talks to me, “accidently” bumps into me, or do something to make it obvious she likes me. I think its cute when a girl tries to get a mans attention. I know some girls do this by over hearing others stories. I’ve put so much effert into woman and I don’t know what it feels like for one girl to show intetest in me. It seems like people expect girls just to sit around and twiddle their thumbs untill a guy comes along. I don’t put up with that attitude. So do most girls not try? Are girls afraid of committed relationships? Do girls even like men anymore?

[flybird]

I’m a senior in college and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I can’t say I haven’t tried. Since freshman year in high school I’m like 0 for 27 or maybe even 0 for 30, hell I’ve lost track of how many girls I wanted to date over the years. 85 – 90% of these girls had boyfriends and the other handfull turned down my date offer. There was never a girl that showed interest in me so I never had it easy finding a date. I see a girl I like and I go after her, it would just be nice for once that I pursue a girl who wants to be with me or if a girl shows she likes me. So is this my fault or is it bad luck?

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