We have discussed reconciliation early on, and went for counseling she said that she didnt recognize the man I was and was adament that she wanted a divorce (this was 5months ago), and I understand why she felt this way i spent to much time working to alleviate our financial troubles and was on anti-depressants at the time and so was she, I did help with the kids but didnt help as much as I should around the house (I was working two jobs, setting my own business up and studying).
I did all these things because we did not like our financial situation we were in considerable debt.
She didnt want to file for divorce due to the cost even though my friends and her family have offered her the money. I have suggested counseling again as I have genuinely changed (de stressed my life considerably) and do believe we can get back on track, but I am in limbo thankfully she has not filed for divorce and this gives me some hope, but on the other hand she says it will not work. Over the past month we have been getting on very well, no arguing etc
