[phenghuang]

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I have a question. I had met this young handsome guy on my way to work, we would meet one or twice a week, but we did not know each other. I had a big crash, but I’m married with kids. I would just glance at him when he passed by, later I noticed that he had some responds, when I looked at him, he would be very happy, but when I did not, he seem very unhappy.

This was going on for months, I was waiting for him to approach me then I could tell him I was married. But he did not do anything. I thought that meant he did not interest at me. But still I liked him so much I need to tell him. So one day I wrote a letter and waited for him, when I passed the letter to him, he refused to take it. I was shock. I did not understand why he behaved this way.

Why he did not take my letter ?

And later he acted the same way again, when I looked at him, he was happy, when not, he was so bad mood. Does that mean he just enjoyed somebody admiring him but not really bother who am I ? Should I do anything, because I did not want to hurt him.

He is not that young, around late twenty or thirty plus, so he is mature and would not be childish, right ?

I am forty plus, but my look is much younger, still attract man especially young man to stare at me even when I was with my kids, is it because I look motherly or what. I thought only young girl will attract men ? Could you explain why ?

Thank you.
phenghuang

[phenghuang]

This is the previous post.

I have a question. I had met this young handsome guy on my way to work, we would meet one or twice a week, but we did not know each other. I had a big crash, but I’m married with kids. I would just glance at him when he passed by, later I noticed that he had some responds, when I looked at him, he would be very happy, but when I did not, he seem very unhappy.

This was going on for months, I was waiting for him to approach me then I could tell him I was married. But he did not do anything. I thought that meant he did not interest at me. But still I liked him so much I need to tell him. So one day I wrote a letter and waited for him, when I passed the letter to him, he refused to take it. I was shock. I did not understand why he behaved this way.

Why he did not take my letter ?

And later he acted the same way again, when I looked at him, he was happy, when not, he was so bad mood. Does that mean he just enjoyed somebody admiring him but not really bother who am I ? Should I do anything, because I did not want to hurt him.

He is not that young, around late twenty or thirty plus, so he is mature and would not be childish, right ?

I am forty plus, but my look is much younger, still attract man especially young man to stare at me even when I was with my kids, is it because I look motherly or what. I thought only young girl will attract men ? Could you explain why ?

Thank you.
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[phenghuang]

Thank you for your reply.

Actually my question was totally different to the previous post. And I don’t know how to re-post the previous post.

It’s just that I was frustrated that people I liked treated me like that. Any advice ?

Every time I met some handsome guy who was a stranger, regularly, I always could predict the ending part. They would first happy to see me but at the end, I seemed to become their enemy. They did not like to see me at all after a few month and angry. Why ?

Did I offend them ?

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