[averysmith456]

But I don’t like him! He’s the one flirting with me while I have a boyfriend… I’m trying to get him to back off but still be his friend. How can I do that?

[averysmith456]

Well im back 🙂 So I’m 18 I just met this really nice guy and I know he likes me a lot. The problem is he flirts with me 100% of the time i’m in contact with him and i’m not interested in him that way. I have a boyfriend (same one mentioned above) at home and I love him and would never think of cheating on him. I just don’t know how to stop this guy from flirting with me. I have mentioned my boyfriend to him like a million times and it just doesn’t phase him. He playfully teases me constantly trying to start tickle wars/playful wrestling and always takes any excuse to touch me and hug me and tries to get me to sit on his lap all the time well that is when he doesn’t attempt to sit on my lap. I have never had a guy be this forward about liking me. He compliments me whenever we’re together and it just doesn’t seem like he is going to give it a break. Now I know you’re going to say forget about him cause he just wants to hook-up but the thing is he texts me all day whenever we aren’t together and tries to get a plan formed so that we can hang out ALL THE TIME. It is getting kind of ridiculous and I just don’t know how to break it to him. How do I get him to stop being all over me without hurting his feelings? How do I get it through his head that i’m only interested in a friendship? Thanks for the help!

[averysmith456]

same relationship, different problem. Well maybe I wouldn’t call it a problem but its something. We’ve been dating for a little over 3 months now and everything is going great so far it’s just the other day he told me he loved me. See this isn’t really a problem I actually thought it was extremely sweet it’s just me that’s the problem. You see I think I love him too but I can never get myself to say it to him so whenever he says it to me I just smile and stare laugh and get nervous and then curse myself out later for not telling him I love him. I don’t know why it’s so difficult for me. Any ideas on how to get myself to not be as nervous about telling him? And also how do I know if I truely love him? I think the main reason I’m stalling is because I only want to say it to him if I mean it but I don’t even know if I mean it. Thanks for your help.

[averysmith456]

The thing is I’m actually really busy all the time so like whenever I do have a free moment that is when we try to hang out. It just so happens that he always invites over other friends along with me. Also we were out at a concert at our school and there was a small party after it which I planned on going to and he asked me if I was going and said that if I was going the party would be an excuse for him to hang out with me. I want to tell him he doesn’t need an excuse to hang out with me, I don’t think he understands that we can actually just hang out for the heck of it, like we don’t have to have a specific plan. I just don’t know how exactly to go about doing this without making him feel weird about it… any tips?

[averysmith456]

k so me and the guy mentioned above have been going out for a little over a month and we really like each other but it is still really awkward, like the awkward stage of our relationship just won’t seem to leave. I think one of our main problems is that we are both extremely inexperienced when it comes to relationships (he is my first boyfriend and I am his first girlfriend). Whenever we try to kiss it just never seems to work out (one of us goes in for a hug by accident instead) and it was funny at first but now it is just kind of getting ridiculous. We have only gone on one date by ourselves and haven’t really hung out alone which kind of upsets me and I keep hinting at hang out alone but it always ends up that I’m at his house and so are like 3 of our mutual friends. He always talks about us doing something on the weekend alone like comes up with tentative plans but he never follows through. I really like him but I just don’t know how to get rid of the awkwardness between us. Please give me some advice… Thank you

[averysmith456]

Thanks! You are completely right he actually just asked me out this morning! Thanks for your time!!!

[averysmith456]

Well my question in short is should i pursue the relationship even if it were to hurt my friend? I know the obvious answer to this is no but I really like him so i just don’t know how to approach the situation.

[averysmith456]

Alright thanks thats good to know but now drama comes in of course… whats a good relationship without drama?! 😐
So my BEST friend likes this guy openly. She is the only one of my friends who i haven’t told i like him and she has a bunch of problems in general and this guy obviously doesn’t like her in that way but she just really really likes him. Now I knew there was no potential for me and him i wouldn’t even worry about this but the fact that he probably likes me and there is a small potential he could ask me out leaves me with a huge problem on my hands as i can’t hurt my friend but i really like him too i’d just rather see her happy than tell her that i like him as well.

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