[beautygirl]

Yeah I get what your saying and I did know something wasnt right and I ignored it all. He did keep texting me to meet up but he wanted it all on his terms and wanted everything to suit him, proves he is a selfish immature man.

Most of the interest he did show was physical. He always told I was beautiful and looked great and I guess I liked that. He was so manipulative and was always all over me and clearly he wanted sex but not commitment ( I did have sex with him and I am so glad i didn’t go there now) I do believe he liked me in some way at the start anyway to show an interest wether it was a physical attraction or whatever.

Thanks for your replies and I am hoping next time I meet a nice who cares about me more!

[beautygirl]

By the way, he was saying all these things about other women, but then still showing interested in me. I ignored him for a while coz i was so annoyed with him and he kept texted me asking to meet up with me and acting like he hadn’t done anything wrong. and when I confronted him he just said Oh i was messing and don’t be silly.

[beautygirl]

Thanks for your reply.

It is over now and I am glad, but he has just left me so confused. because He acted so strange with me.. but he never seemed to think anything he said or did was weird so I am doubting myself. I wasn’t sure about him from the start, we were meeting once a week or so for about 3 months ( during that time we has kissed and he was quite touchy, arms around me etc) I knew he was going traveling in the summer but didnt no the date he was leaving, then I saw on facebook he had left….. not telling me and not saying goodbye, nothing!!! so anyway he spoke to me during the summer like twice, he came back, texted me that night and asked to meet right away, he seemed very keen to see me straight away.

aside from that, he wouldnt drive somewhere to meet me when i asked, but things were ok for about 2 weeks then he started making comments about other women, one in specific he meet and thought was pretty and how there was lots of attractive women about he should take the opportunity and other rude and disrespectful comments like that. (was he wanteding attention) Then the comments about still being single. Then he left at xmas for a month and barely communicated with me, no phonecalls/skype or anything!

Because of all of the above i never knew where i stood with him and I never how he felt about me, but he still acted interested which i found so confusing and hard to understand. He said to me he thought I was secretive, and he thought my friends didn’t know about him, (which they did) he never asked me did they know. I think he is a bit insecure. i said why do you think I am being secretive he said i took a of us and you wanted to delete it…that was because it was a bad photo, we took another one and we kept it! I guess if i was being secretive it was because of the way he acting and i didnt have any idea how he felt or where i stood.

I was so confused now and kinda blaming myself, DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG and thats why he acted the way he did and why he didnt want to make it into a proper relationship. is it coz I was ‘secretive’ and he thought my friends and Mum didnt know?
I was thinking did i not give him enough attention, when i ‘think’ i did. perhaps it was just his insecurity and needed to feel accepted and craving too much attention.

I am just worried that I did something wrong and I will mess any future relationships up, i havnt really been in a proper relationship before, so I dont know If he or I acted normal, or am I supposed to introduce him to my parents first, before we define a relationship?!!! Should I have introduced him to my parents or something? or invited him out with my friends one night? (he knew a few of my friends already) I don’t know what else I could have done!!!!
what is it him or me?!

[beautygirl]

mid 20’s, he is actually 30. Been about 6 months.

[beautygirl]

Mid 20’s, he is actually 30. Been about 6 months.

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