Perhaps I should clarify something which might change things. Yes, she came over to my apartment to watch a movie there and intending to stay the night. I’m not sure she intended to spend it in the same bed (it was her first time at the apartment, and she may have believed there was a couch or something). Lastly, the reason I feel guilty about the sexual pass was because I made it when she was sleeping. She feel asleep, and I slipped my hand under her shirt, and she woke up to that. I think that’s a slightly more justifiable reason to react as she did as opposed to if I had just made a pass when we were both awake.