[tripper]

Ok one more question. We last saw each other Monday, and she implied that I wouldn’t see her again before she went out of state. I’m not sure exactly which date she’s leaving, I suppose I should have asked. But ya, obviously I want to escape the friendzone ASAP. But I also don’t want to come off as needy or clingy. She also said she’s not sure how long she’ll be around when she gets back before going to see her ex in South Africa. I’m just wondering what you think about the timing, should I just go ahead and ask her on an actual date now?

[tripper]

ya i was essentially thinking “all is fair in love and war” but didn’t want to be disrespectful. i read too much into everything. but ya i really don’t even know how to flirt, i’m probably the most awkward person ever. i didn’t have a female friend until 6th grade. were you implying to just ask her to a movie or something? or start texting attempting to flirt? thanks again, i’m pretty incompetent when it comes to human relations. unfortunately i actually like this one

[tripper]

so you would say i should ask her on a date despite her possibly still being interested in her “ex”? if so, should i wait a while after she gets back from south africa? i doubt there will be time before then, she said she wasn’t sure how long she would be back in between being out of state and being in south africa.

also just curious, how would you take her insisting on paying for ice cream because i’d paid for drinks the last time we’d seen each other?

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