[kristielee]

his daughter knows me well.. but his daughters moma doesnt want her around any other females except her. so what should i do???

[kristielee]

hi april its three days later since this has taken place.. for the past two days they have been in a huge argument.. an he has been so nice to me but he is sending me alot of mixed signals right now.. and i love him its ery hard to just up and walk away.. is there anything thing i can do to make him realize.. i mean we have been together for four years.. i really need to know if there is any fixing this.. because if i walk away now.. i will never look back..

[kristielee]

hey april.. i love the book its helping so very much.. here is an update on my situation me an my boyfriend are still in the same house together.. but i went to him an told him its time for us to go our seperate ways he still saying thats not what he wants.. he left this past sunday to go out of town to work an he barely called me i didnt call him at all.. i waited to hear from him which wasnt much at all an when he did call he was very short with me an didnt have a whole lot to say.. he called me on tuesday an told me he was coming back from out of town an ask if i would pick him up from the office so i did. an he was texting on his phone the whole way back to our house which is about a 45 minute drive from his office.. i ask him who he was texting an he said his babys moma.. he said he was going to get his daughter when he got back which is an hour drive from our house an it was already seven oclock at night.. an the wheather was awful.. he was off the next day so i said to him why dont you just wait an go get her in the morning when the wheather is better an he had just drove 4 hours from where he was working an then another hour to where we live. he said no he was going to go ahead an get her tht nite so we get back to our house an of course im stressing out because he is acting so strange. but anyway he kisses me an tells me he loves me an tells me after he picks his daughter up he says he is going to stop an get a movie so me an him can spend some time together after his daughter goes to sleep. well he finally gets back about 930 an the first thing he does is ask me to whatch his daughter he said he wanted to get a shower an he ask me to make him somethimg to eat while he was in the shower so i did. when he got out of the shower he went an got his daughter to sleep. then he ate his dinner an while he was eating i ask him if he got a movie an he said no.. he never told me why.. he just said he was tired an he was gonna go to bed.. so he did an i was up half the night wandering what in the heck had happened.. so i decided i was going to look thru his phone and see if i could find some answers.. well he had locked me out of it an of course that raised alot of questions.. so the next morning i ask him what he was hiding from me an he said nothing i told him he was lying to me.. an he ended telling me he had two naked pics on his phone from someone but never told me who.. so tell me what i should do???

[kristielee]

ok april??? now that he has told his babys moma that if she would straighten up that they would be together.. now she is being very forcefull and its starting to push him away.. and he is starting not to want to be with her anymore.. but i took your advice on moving on an letting him have no distractions and he want have it.. he says he wants me in his life.. he says that im the only female that has ever been able to satisfy him completely… i mean our sex life is awsome an we do have fun together even when were not in the bedroom.. but him an his baby moma made an agreement not to have another male or female around there daughter an he doesnt want his daughter growing up in another mans lap he says.. he is telling me he was considering it because of his daughters happiness.. he says he only cares abt his babys moma but he doesnt love her he says he loves me.. im trying to end this and get closesure.. i mean i feel this is best cause of there agreement.. but he want have it at all.. i still need your advice on how to approach this.. and i tried finding your book think like a man date like man an i couldnt find it at either book store here in my town.. but please i need your input.. i mean we have been together for almost four years… an i still love him very much

[kristielee]

i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years now.. he just come to me this week an told me he feels like he needs to be with the mother of his child.. his daughter is three years old. but he says he wants me to remain apart of his life but he wants me not to be in the public eye.. he says he cant imagine me nobeing apart of his life.

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