[JakBrown13]

April…wanted to let you know that thanks to your advice things are going well with this girl! When we hung out last week before my business trip we had a very good & productive talk about us. The communication lines between us are wide open which has helped and the timetable you laid out for me really helped me think about this relationship more clearly/more realistically. My anxieties have turned into good times/thoughts/feelings. Although still unable to see each other as often as I’d like we’ve managed to fit in some good times with more to come.
Thanks again April!!!

[JakBrown13]

This totally helps! I like the timetable you mentioned. It’s been so long since I’ve been in or even pursued a long term relationship that I forgot its not necessarily an overnight thing. I guess I got over zealous because she was giving off those type of signals during those first 6 weeks. Like early on she was talking about taking trips, etc plus all the texts when she was away exchanging all the “I miss yous” and her calling me “baby” and what not I thought she was ready to make some type of leap into something more serious.
I’ll see what happens tomorrow night but my attitude will be way less desperate and more exciting just to see her and enjoy her company.

Thanks April! I’ll for sure keep you posted!

[JakBrown13]

We’re both in our late 30’s. She’s divorced, I’ve never been married. She was married young and it didn’t last long. Since my posting this morning we’ve scheduled to hang out tomorrow night but that has since moved to Wednesday due to a work issue for her. I’m leaving Thursday for work and won’t be back til next early next week. Apparently her schedule over the next few weeks is pretty hectic. I feel like saying something about where I stand when we hang out Wednesday but maybe I should just enjoy the time we have and see what happens.

[JakBrown13]

Both in our late 30s. She’s divorced, married young and I think just for a short amount of time. We’re supposed to hang out tomorrow night. I don’t want to make a big dramatic scene or anything but I do kind of want to let her know where I stand. Should I or should I just enjoy tomorrow night and see what happens when I get back from my business trip next week?

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