Hi April,
We are in our mid twenties. We dated for about 9 months but I was always ready to take that next step into being truly serious and entirely exclusive. She was always concerned that she wasn’t ready to do that and in her own words was worried that if she truly committed to me “that would be it” and wasn’t ready for that.
Our relationship got to the point that I was constantly trying “to be enough”. Eventually everything fell apart and I’ve spent the last 2 months or so giving her space and really focusing on getting my head straight which I believe it is now. I obviously still care for her and at some point would want her back. But at the same time I dont want someone (even her) that hasn’t gotten all of whatever this is out of her system.
What do you think is going on in her head?
Thanks
