Thank you April for responding. Let me give you more details about my relationship and his personality. Like I stated, we have been together on and off for 6 years. I have broken up with him because he would leave me out to party with his guys friends. Then he would come back and beg to get back 6 months later. He has broken up with me due to my trust issues since and then would get back together after 6 months. I think we’ve broken up like 6 times. I have dated other men and he has dated other women when we aren’t together. He is the type of person who tells me how it is, especially when it comes to breaking up. This past year has been AWESOME. And he’s finally opening up to me and talking about “our future” which is something he has never done before. The point is: if he wants to break up to live the single life- he will do it no matter what, since he has done it before. When I talked to him about his researching techniques, and told him I wanted to break up, he didn’t want to. Which is not a normal reaction from him, because he never has done that before. I am afraid if I break up, then I will mess our relationship up and all the hard work we have been through to keep it together. On the other hand, I am afraid that he is just using me for the mean time, until he finds someone else who is attracted to him and then leave me. I not concerned if he will cheat on me, because like i said- if he wants to live the single life, he would just break up and thats it. I am afraid that “what if” a “hot girl” at his school starts to talk to him and they end up liking each other, then he will leave me. I also discussed this him during the heat of the moment (I was livid and not thinking rationally) and his response weren’t good enough for me! He wants to talk in a couple of days. Any advice on how to go by this? I obviously don’t want to break up with him but I don’t know what to do! I am torn
