Hey April, just wanted to give you an update on my situation. I work at a college and take my lunch breaks in the café. She (whose a student) was in the café sitting by herself so I took the opportunity to talk to her. It wasn’t a long conversation because I had to get back to work. I didn’t tell her how I felt about her, I told her that we see each other a lot and instead of looking at each other we should go out and talk to get to know each other. She said she had a boyfriend but it was nice of me to ask. I was disappointed because I really felt she felt the same way towards me as did to her. I guess I made a miscalculation. I always put myself in these situations where I ask out a woman that has a boyfriend. This has happened 30 some times (I know it’s a lot). How can I avoid this from continuing in the future? How can I get my mind to chase a woman that’s single?
