Wow, thanks for the extremely fast reply, April! (:
Your advice is excellent — thank you. I honestly do know that it is best to let it go… it is just extremely difficult. I guess with all of the details and coincidences, it’s easy to start thinking “it was meant to be” or “these kinds of things don’t just happen for no reason!” But when it comes down to it, they are major coincidences. I also think there are built-up emotions there from feeling that I lost him back then and now he’s back.
Another thing I have thought through is that even though it was a huge crush and we did have a connection… that’s all I know about him now. People change especially over a long period of time. Even though he seems to be a person I love, maybe there are things I would not like at all about him once I knew more.
My current boyfriend is wonderful and I don’t want to jeopardize or ruin anything with him. He’s not perfect though (no one is!), so it is easy to put more weight on his flaws when comparing but that isn’t fair play.
I love that you suggested a threesome, LOL! Of course I would be down for that but the only way my boyfriend would be on board is if it’s with another woman. Haha! (:
I will try to do everything I can to let it go. It’s going to be difficult. I will try to focus all of my effort on my current relationship and do what I can to forget about it. Thanks again.
