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one more question i have in my mind running a lot.
he did say in the first month of our relationship, he was afraid that i liked him more, than he likes me. he said he was afraid he couldn’t love me back… and after 8 months, that’s what it happened. is this normal at all? how can someone predict and “plan” this? thanks.

i hope i get better in time fast. I am facing my anger and fears, i’ll get trough it 🙂 i realized now that there’s not a problem with myself for being who i am, it helps for me to calm down more, and stay in the moment… not fearing the future. I hope i comeback stronger even though i’m afraid of what’s coming next right now 🙂

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he recently added me on Google+, he add me as a friend in is circle at 5am this saturday. was it on purpose? i can’t tell, i didn’t even had him on my account and it was just strange. i just saw the email alert and my heart jumped really fast. How normal is this after 1 month and 2 weeks of my no contact with him? i though maybe to add him back, but it’s pointless if i don’t anything from him but only “i’m sorry”, which i know i’m never going to get probably. :s

I eared that now he is making competitions to invite fans to go to the cinema with him and giving free tickets, how lame is that though? is this a “supply” for him now that he doesn’t have me in is life anymore?

Thanks for your advice bellow, i’ll carry that in note now. 🙂 i think i’m getting better in time.

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Yeah, i can agree with you. He isn’t what i was expecting or what i was wanting… i felt that i was a unfair relationship for me. I can’t be in a relationship by simply giving, and not getting in it back, i tried, but he is what he is, and that’s what he wants to be… he never loved me anyways, and even if he had, and i don’t think it would be any different i think.

It’s been hard picking up myself, i have been feeling really alone, my self-esteem gone, inner strength gone, and sanity (not really wanting to blame him, it’s always the fault of the 2 partners, but i feel like he sucked me all up giving my heart away trying to catch his and getting more emotional… because i only remember of myself after meet him so strong, confident, sure of myself, and it’s sad to admit it, but i lost myself in this process/relationship cause i was manipulated/brainwashed and i didn’t listen to all the warning signs in the very beginning and i simply risked it all… but i guess that’s just the normal process of me finding myself and putting all the pieces together, isn’t it?

i’ve been going with friends, gym and work a lot, but it’s not easy, i never though i was this vulnerable, weak/sensible… that’s how i’m feeling 🙁

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the thing here is that, i didn’t at all wanted or said to him, ever, that our relationship should be first always… not at all. But at least be in the same category? and by that i mean, important as his career? 🙄 isn’t that a true relationship? i still have my ambitions too, and till now, i question a lot myself where i did wrong. all i can conclude, is that i gave too much for someone who wouldn’t change (but i though that with more time, we were supposedly more involved with each other, or at least part of him… but i never saw him grow up from that, never saw really big effort on getting more emotional and take it to the next level after 8 months, or respect, i kinda feel taken for granted for real).

i couldn’t take no more since he was always critical with everything, and putting me down, and so less of emotional. who wants to date and be the second choice after all?

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