[Stardust]

True, I understand that people think differently, yet I believe there are similarities that I can accurately access when it comes to their thoughts. Based slightly on intuition, and their past behavior.

I asked for your advice because I wanted you to confirm my hunch that he only said I was like his sister because he thought I rejected him. Do you think that it’s plausible?

[Stardust]

I’m an over analyzer, so if I did any minuscule thing to make him think I was interested romantically, I would remember. I also think about how he would interpret our conversations/intersections and lack thereof. I can’t think of anything that would be a glaring “I like you” sign to him.

That heart text was intended to be friendly, and any logical person would assume that, especially in context.

I’d like to think that he said it to protect his ego, if he believed that I don’t see him as more than a friend, he would preemptively cut me off before I could verbally reject him. That’s still plausible, right?

[Stardust]

But since that party, I didn’t do anything to make him think I was interested in him romantically! Unless it was this text I sent? “Thx for helping my sweet sister <3” I never ever text hearts to him. He texted – “no prob, u girls are like sisters to me.” Thanks again. I’m an awful flirt. So I thought I would simply tell him how I feel next time I see him. If I lose a friend, oh well, we’re not close like bother and sister.

[Stardust]

Thanks April. But he said it so randomly and weeks after the party, that it threw me off and hurt me somewhat. I’m wondering why it was unprompted, and why tell me I’m like a sister now, and not years ago??

Anyway, not to conpletely toot my own horn, but I’ve been told that I’m pretty and have a pleasant personality. So I’ll try to show a lot more interest through flirting, if I know I still have a chance.

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