No one said this, and I’m not sure this is great advice, but I don’t think I’d be in the mood if everything felt so ‘planned’ and everything felt so…’same old.
Maybe start working out, or just making yourself look extra handsome when you come home. Try out a new cologne, or even start doing your hair different.
Maybe even do things out of impulse more. Don’t plan to go to that restaurant, just go. Be more adventurous, and make things feel like..when you first met.
