Sorry for the mix up! I re-read my post and see how it could be confusing. I did not mean that we had adopted a child, I meant that I had gotten pregnant, by him, we had a child together whom we then had privately adopted (because we felt as though we were not ready to raise a child).
I am assuming he is okay because his phone has gone on and off several times in the last 2 weeks, which leads me to believe he has been speaking to other people. He doesn’t spend a lot of time with many people, so there is really only 1 or 2 people (friends) I could ask, if they have heard from him or not, but I wasn’t sure whether that would be appropriate or not.
