Just wanted to update ya, he called me yesterday and I asked if he needed company. he said they can’t have anyone at his house becuase they don’t own it right now and his mum would get upset if something was missing.
So he said he could come over here. I said sure.
Well, he never called back.
I believe he is giving himself an excuse if it doesn’t work. “I told you I couldn’t handle relationships!” I think you shouldn’t set your sights on jsut him, look around and date someone who may want to commit to you without letting you know you’ll be disappointed.
I am female so do not ask people on dates, but I would say ask for a date for a week away, it makes it seem like you have planned it and not thought of it on the spur of the moment. Take it from someone whos done this, you don’t want to seem desperate.
After reading enough relationship books, and your threads, my idea is to casually see other guys (nothing serious as I like him only) and let him know. I think I need to be chased here.
