[kjfri189]

Okay thanks for advice

I did do part two just forgot to mention went out a couple dates this weekend nothing really sparked with either girl but had a good time either way.

I have stopped contacting her the last couple of weeks but it doesn’t matter she contacts me everyday,should just ignore her for a bit maybe she’ll take the hint.

[kjfri189]

Just an update my ex came back from her trip and still continues to blow me off and it’s drives me crazy that she does that.

Now were suppose to meet the day after Christmas this will be the 6th time we are suppose to see each other. I’ve gotten a little more bold as of late telling how i feel.Letting her know i don’t appreciate getting blown off constantly and that it seems like she doesn’t care about me anymore.

She says it’s not that at all,it’s just that she is nervous when she see’s me she will want to be with me instantly and she’s scared of getting back into the bad habits that broke us up in the first place.

At what point do i give the ultimately either see me or don’t contact me again ?

[kjfri189]

Thanks for the advice April i have an update for you and could use a little more advice.

I’ve been doing the actions you’ve recommended and we’ve been talking regularly,even speaking about our relationship pretty regularly. The problem is anytime she makes a date to meet she reschedules and says i;’m not ready to see you yet. She leaving for the weekend to go to Florida and says when she gets back she says we’ll meet and talk about if we want to give it another shot.

I’ve been sending her flowers every week and other assorted gifts and she loves it and always tells me to text her in the morning and night,but the last two days have been like pulling teeth talking to her i call get voice mail i text she takes hour to respond and her responses are very short.

I’m starting to think maybe i should stop contacting her for a couple of days and see if she really wants to talk to me or if I’m just her entertainment till she finds someone else.

[kjfri189]

It seems like we talk everyday almost more than when we were together some days. If i don’t contact her in the earlier morning she will text me and ask what’s wrong. She knows how i feel but it seems like every time i bring up things that involve our relationship she either completely ignores it or just says something negative.

I came out and just asked her today if she’s over me and has moved on and she responded with i don’t know and i don’t want to hurt you. So i told her that pretty much means yes your over me and she told me that’s not what it means and that she knows i need answers but she doesn’t have them yet.

It’s driving me crazy I’m still making positive changes to my life either way with her or without. Just not sure if it’s time to just move on yet though. It’s easier said than done to because every time i talk to a single women now all i think about is my ex and how much i would rather have her. 😥

[kjfri189]

The break up has happened already about a month and a half ago we don’t see each other except for when i just saw her out and a few times in passing every time i see her she texts me saying that she still gets butterflies like we use to get.We talk but she seems really hesitant to meet me or talk about getting back together. She talks about everything in the past tense example (we did have a good relationship,it was nice while we were together). She says i didn’t give her enough attention and that i was out to much with friends and she’s right i realize my mistake and want to change them but how do i convince her that I’m willing to change.

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