I talked to her she said thats part of it, sex has become somewhat of a chore, and she feels like a failure because we cant get pregnant. She does not want to talk about it much. she tries to avoid talking about it. She says I am making her do something she does not wish to do. I told her I crave that intimacy, and want it back, she suggested I accept the fact she does not want to do that, and get over it. She said she never made me go down on her and i can refuse if I want. I think she would snap if I refused to go down on her. Is what she does not see is that I am really hurt because this aspect has faded. She says she wishes I would keep top talking about it, i told her I cant keep it bottled up inside
