Sorry. I am 45 years of age and they are within a couple of years of my age. I was married for about 16 years. I did not date or see any women until about 2 years after my initial separation from my ex-wife. I then met a wonderful lady, who has since passed-away. I reached-out to an old girlfriend and we became extremely close,once-again. This lasted for about a year an due to the living situation, we parted ways. I then went to an online site and met another wonderful woman who I have been seeing on and off for about 3 months now. The problem is, I work with my ex-girlfriend and everytime we see each other, the sparks fly and the chemistry continues to flow. I want her very badly, but do not want to hurt the one I have been seeing. Both give me something the other does not. I have known my ex-girlfriend since right out of highschool and we do have a 25 year old daughter together as well. I cannot stop thinking about her, and I know this is not fair to the new lady. April, please help me straighten this mess out before I go nuts and before I hurt someone who is a wonderful human being. 🙁