Hey April, thanks for the reply.
He is 31 and I’m 27. Our get togethers were great. We went for dinner after work and coffee. We spent 2-3 hours every time. He seems comfortable and happy, I’m not mind reader though. He always keeps conversation alive cos I’m on more quiet side, makes me laugh. He mostly talks about the funny things at work, events with his friends and family. He one time shared me about his family members’ divorce cases. He told me about his exes but only when I asked. But he didn’t ask me out for a date. 🙁 our arrangement of these get togethers are like unplanned things, when I texted him that it’s so lonely to have dinner alone, he replied that I could wait for him. When he texted me what’s my dinner and I said I hadn’t had yet then he asked me whether I would want company. So he literally didn’t ask me out for a date. That makes me sad. We are actually nobody to each other, not friend, not colleague, no mutual friend, not even the same nationality. So if he isn’t interested, he doesn’t need to bother waking me up everyday, right? But if he is interested then why is he so slow? Or am I just being too pushy? How should I play his game?
