Thank you…very good advice.
[quote=”April Masini”]consider that your sexual attraction to the two women you had failed relationships with, may have blinded you to flaws that ultimately were part of the relationships’ failures. [/quote]
You couldn’t be more right about that! This was especially true with my ex-fiance. From the very beginning the physical attraction and chemistry was very good. That combined with fact that we were both kind and compassionate people heavily masked the fact that we just didn’t haven’t much in common at all. We just didn’t see eye-to-eye on some very important things, which built tension and led to resentment. We were both making sacrifices and compromises of our own values that the other never saw as compromise. We always thought the fact that we were both juts good people and very attracted to one another it would all work out…it just wasn’t enough and as I have often heard…good sex will mask bad relationships for along time.
Thanks again. I am looking forward to getting know this new woman in a way much different than what I am used to. We have many similar interests in terms of culture and entertainment as well more important things like careers, religious beliefs and finances. It is a very nice change, just unfamiliar not having the physical magnetism, but I think following your advice of spicing things up will make things even more exciting.
