I’m sure it is not to make her husband jealous or keep guys on the side just in case. She always had many guy friends, very seldom girl friends, even when she was single. I’m her aunt and have known her all her life. So is it she’s just looking for the attention they give her. If so, why do you think that mite be? I care about her and just trying to figure her out. not try to change her or anything.