"April Masini answers questions no one else can and tells you the truth that no one else will."

DontKnowWhat2Think

Forum Replies Created

Viewing 2 posts - 1 through 2 (of 2 total)
  • Member
    Posts
  • in reply to: Am I wrong? #29689
    DontKnowWhat2Think
    Member #372,250

    He keeps denying that he has an emotional connection with her that runs deeper than the one we have. I told him it’s unhealthy for him to continue letting this woman message him and for him to keep her on facebook, whatsapp, text, phone calls, gaming sites, skype, viber, and other social media. He tells me he doesn’t want to break up with me because he loves me, my feelings are unjustified, that the breakup is my fault because I made this up, and that he never cared about her…but he refuses to hurt her feelings by removing her from his life because he isn’t the type of person that hurts others.

    I really miss him so much. I’ve never loved anyone before. He was the only person who knew everything about me and still loved me. Why is he being so stubborn about believing she hurt our relationship?

    Do you think if I contact him in a month he will have recognized it or will he still protect her feelings over mine? I feel so broken April.

    in reply to: Am I wrong? #29654
    DontKnowWhat2Think
    Member #372,250

    I don’t think he is romantically into her because she is married and he has told me he thinks she’s ugly. They knew each other when they were both single but didn’t date. I just don’t know why he is so protective of her 🙁

    PS – totally random information but I had previously told him it wasnt normal to talk to his ex five years after their breakup and when he had a new girlfriend. At first he didn’t understand why but his family agreed that it was wrong and afterwards he had no issues whatsoever with blatantly ignoring the exes emails and texts or even blocking her email. He has a few friends that are girls but I guess that’s normal for guys right?

    Another note… I don’t really have any guy friends because I think it’s 100% wrong to if your not dating the guy. I’ve been trying to pursue friendships with men after noting how many of his friends are girls and it feels still feels wrong

    It feels so good to rant ^^

Viewing 2 posts - 1 through 2 (of 2 total)