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I’ve tried contacting her multiple times to try and get an answer if she is pregnant or not. She won’t respond to my calls or texts. Ive done nothing wrong so I don’t understand why she MIA and I don’t understand how hard it is to give me a yes or no answer if she’s prego or not. If she wasn’t prego I don’t why she wouldn’t just say so

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A little update and feedback needed. So she missed her period a month ago and was a few weeks late. Contact was even less frequent and she seemed mad about the situation about her possibly being pregnant and how she doesn’t need anymore stress in her life. That’s all very true. However I haven’t heard anything in almost a month from her except that i had a fight coming up and she said she is so proud and that she has been working alot to pay bills. I would think she would atleast tell me if she is or isnt pregnat. it’s getting annoying. She made it clear that she wouldn’t keep a baby from her words. And that this is the reason she doesn’t get involved with people. She clearly has a handful of issues and I don know if her not communicating with me is her way of protecting her self. In my previous posts I said how I was going to give her space. She thought I was ” ditching her ” and thought I was ” breaking her heart”. I said no thats the last thing i want and that im just giving her space. Women….

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I told her I didn’t mean to intentionally add stress to her life and I told her i get with everything that’s going on in her life right now that she needs her time and that I’ll be here if she needs me. she thought that meant I was ditching(she used the word ditching..) her and said she was worried I was breaking her heart. Now keep in mind we are not officially dating, but we acted like we were basically . Every time I tried to make plans on the weekend to make it official by asking her to be my girlfriend she shuts herself out. even if we both agreed to hang. I explained that no I’m not “ditching” her I’m just given her the space she needs and when she ready to hang I’ll be around. Now I haven’t even got a text in a week from her and I’ve reached out a few times saying good morning. Should I stop all communications and give up on this one? I really like her alot and I saw something great brewing between us but I’m not gonna be kept on the back burner forever. I don’t think that’s being fair to myself. I dont fall for women like this ever. ive gone on many dates, as I’m not shy and I enjoy taking a woman out. ive always kept my options open looking for the perfect one that i want to make my girlfriend. and have had two relationships lasting a total of 5 years.. this is the first woman i met where i thought i could see myself marrying this woman someday. Also if I choose to wait around to see if things get bet ter is it wrong for me to go on other dates?

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Is it common for someone that is emotionally burdened and depressed to shut people out for awhile? Especially the ones they care about?

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Thank you! I’m just gonna lay in the tall grass and she can reach out to me if she wants. With that trifecta and being emotionally burdened I don’t think she can handle anymore on her plate, let alone a new relationship.

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