[iHearVoices]

Would this be better than just telling her how I feel then? I don’t really know how to go about starting to hold her hand and stuff, plus i’m scared that because she is super shy she wouldn’t like the spontaneity of a kiss.
Thanks for your reply 🙂

[iHearVoices]

[quote=”April Masini”]I want to answer your question here but first…. please cut and past this question, as a “reply” to the first string of posts you’ve started on this forum. It’s a lot easier for me (and anyone else who wants to weigh in here) to give you great advice, when all your information is in one place. So go here: , repost, and I’ll answer you! 😀[/quote]

Okay done. But please bear in mind this situations are completely different people.The other didn’t end too well and I have since moved on

[iHearVoices]

(Disclaimer; This reply is a completely different scenario to the OP, that unfortunately didn’t go too well and I have since moved on)

Okay so I started University like 2 weeks ago and I’ve met a girl who I seem to have a huge crush on. Like one of those ‘up all night thinking about you’ crushes. The problem is this girl is incredibly shy and has insecurities and I cannot for the life of me tell whether she ‘likes’ me back. She’s impossible to read. There are reasons why I think she does; for example when we met for the first time she was the one to ask for my number (which must have been hard for her because she later told me she finds it really hard to talk to new people and that she feels comfortable around me), we text every day, we flirt quite a bit over text (however she doesn’t in person but I put that down to her being shy?), she seems to like hanging around me as she has asked me to places multiple times, we have loads in common and can talk for ages, she laughs at all my jokes and generally seems happy around me, she’s confided in me, I mean we’ve even joked about me not being in the friendzone so early. However then there are reasons why I’m unsure and therefore extremely confused. Sometimes she will take like 5 hours to reply to a text, or not reply till morning, if I compliment her (over text) she just says ‘aww thanks 😉‘, she has made up excuses like ‘soz my phone died’ when i’ve asked her out somewhere and she doesn’t really make eye contact with me or anything that signifies she might like me in person. I’ve just never met a girl like it, I just can’t read her, and the fact she is so shy and therefore mysterious makes me even more desperate haha. What do you think from what I’ve said.
Also, how do you think is the best way to tell her how I feel bearing in mind she is really shy and socially anxious. Like do I just try and kiss her? Ask for her permission to kiss her? Ask her if she likes me? Or tell her that I like her? Or any other? (Although it must be clear to her that I do like her by now, I’ve made it relatively obvious). Any help would be appreciated.
Regards.

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